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Can’t steal my sunshine! Apr 14

We all have those people in our lives that it seems like the sun never shines their way.  They either choose to look at the negative or let it hold them down.  Sometimes we support these people and try to encourage them to see the sun and other times we may choose to let them go.  I think the ones we let go or should let go are the ones that continue to push their misery on to us.  I know this is much easier said then done in some cases but when is enough enough?

As the drama continues, I am trying to avoid it, duck it, dodge it and get the hell out of its way.  However it seems like each week it just continues, the pot is stirred just a bit more.  I mean really, you can only beat a dead horse for so long.  So when things get to this point what do you do?  That really is the question because I have no freaking clue.  I don’t know what to do.  The sun is currently shining on my life in ways that make my heart smile but there seems to loom this one lonely cloud.  This one cloud that keeps threatening my sunshine.  I guess I could remove it, the metaphorical cloud, but by what means.  Emails straight to trash.  That seems to be the only real option I currently see.  And while this little cloud continues to annoy me and tries to interrupt my beautiful day, I can say that is only a minor annoyance.

I will continue to go about my day and welcome the warmth the sun brings.  With this I have found new respect for some and lost it for others.

Let the sunshine, it’s so much nicer that way 🙂